As a mom to two young children, I constantly try to find ways to create meaningful memories and connections with them. I want to show my little ones how much I love them in every love language; this is when I started writing letters to each of them. On the eve of their birthdays, I sit down with my husband and we reflect on how much our baby (and we as parents) have grown. It’s truly a beautiful moment.
How can writing letters benefit your children?
Writing letters to your children can have a profound impact on their emotional well-being and development:
- Emotional connection: Letters provide a unique opportunity to express your emotions and strengthen the bond between you and your child. They can read your words over and over again, feeling your love and support even when you're not physically present.
- Self-esteem boost: Receiving letters from parents can make children feel valued, special, and loved.
- Reflection and growth: Writing letters allows you to reflect on your own experiences, share life lessons, and impart any wisdom you have come to earn as parents.
- The 5 Love Languages: Writing and giving letters to your children is an act of love that touches on 3 of the 5 love languages: 1. Acts of service, 2. Receiving gifts, and 3. Words of affirmation (Gary Chapman, The 5 Love Languages). In writing these letters, you are performing an act of service and creating something for your child, you are giving them a physical gift, and the words you impart in the letters affirm your love to your child. Reading these letters together can be 4. Quality time, and any 5. Physical touch you share at the time of gifting would provide your child with love received in all 5 languages.
How to get started with writing letters to your children?
Writing letters to your children doesn't have to be complicated or time-consuming. Here are a few tips to help you get started:
- Set aside dedicated time: Find a quiet moment in your day or night when you can focus on writing without distractions. My husband and I write after the children have gone to bed, on the eve of their birthdays.
- Be genuine and personal: Write from the heart and be yourself. Share your thoughts, memories, and dreams. Your children will appreciate your authenticity and what has changed or stayed the same as the years have passed.
- Make it a regular practice: Set a goal to write letters to your children regularly, such as for their birthdays. It could also be a monthly ritual, a school year ritual, or a quick daily note.
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- Organize your thoughts: With guided prompts and templates, this journal helps you structure your letters and ensures you cover all the important aspects you want to convey.
- A consistent practice: This journal has dedicated pages for each birthday from age 1 year to 18 years, making your letter writing a ritual.
- Preserve memories for the future: The beautifully designed book serves as a timeless keepsake that your children can treasure for years to come. It's a tangible reminder of your love and the memories you've all shared.
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